In an earlier post, I shared a prayer that I wrote after our twins. Peter and I actually had it made into prayer cards for our work with the Respect Life Committee, namely the bereavement portion. We ordered some to use at church, but, I'd be happy to send some out to the moms (and dads) who struggle with the hurt. You don't have to be Catholic, either; I think that Mary is quite an example to bereaved parents regardless of your faith.
Just email me at michele dot haytko at gmail dot com with your address and I'll post them (even internationally) :)
For those looking for the referenced post (which has a picture of the cover art and the prayer) click here.