First, thanks for all your comments; those were sweet. I appreciate them.
And thank you to Jack, the moderator of the site, who removed my link due to the nasty anon comments I was receiving (and didnt publish) but who were coming to me via that website. I didnt ask him to do so and find it really nice that he did because he wanted to. He even apologized! Which I totally didn't expect!
Sometimes you find niceness in places unexpected; my heart needed that today...
Thank you, Jack.
UPDATE: After an influx of even nastier comments from Anons (and some who left their names but no links) that came to me from the forum site, I have turned off my anonymous commenting (at least for the present). I'm sorry to the Anons who are regulars and hope this wont be a permanent change.