tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post8837810800554632914..comments2023-10-26T04:01:17.116-04:00Comments on My Life After Loss: Giving Up the GhostMichelehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17681333723382119281noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-65605834637038206142009-07-01T08:20:20.174-04:002009-07-01T08:20:20.174-04:00This is so beautiful.
Your babies are such very ...This is so beautiful. <br /><br />Your babies are such very wise souls, so very wise. I have a suspicion that it might be in the genes. <br /><br />I don't believe you have lost them. They are with you and Peter for always. They all have a very, very special Mommy and Daddy.<br /><br />I know that if I am every pregnant again, I will also be 24w, 24w, 24w. I've never been that pregnant. But your little ones are right, you are right. We just have to enjoy what we are given. We don't actually have any control at all and that is very difficult to accept at times. But we have to try and let go. <br /><br />Much love to you and your family. xxCatherine Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01618295389400457254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-25849277983545560502009-07-01T05:59:50.690-04:002009-07-01T05:59:50.690-04:00Thinking of you often and wishing so many good thi...Thinking of you often and wishing so many good things for you all. Much hugsAngehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04247910522550279292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-45786821308005287382009-07-01T03:19:12.592-04:002009-07-01T03:19:12.592-04:00you are a fabulous writer... that was beautiful :)...you are a fabulous writer... that was beautiful :)Kimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15276575383753334435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-53566150532286445022009-06-30T20:01:03.288-04:002009-06-30T20:01:03.288-04:00Of course they are with you. Thank you for sharing...Of course they are with you. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful story!Barefoothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17514231523278098569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-65370262809720537902009-06-30T15:33:28.021-04:002009-06-30T15:33:28.021-04:00this is a beautiful post and I am so glad that Go...this is a beautiful post and I am so glad that God has given you a sign to cling to.Tammy On the Gohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14043677672931768639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-65542068481756342882009-06-30T13:22:27.726-04:002009-06-30T13:22:27.726-04:00I was thinking about your post this morning, and i...I was thinking about your post this morning, and it seems that this bed rest is giving you a chance to grieve and make a place for Maya and Bobby. It is so hard when your heart is so full of losses,and you must soldier on, to just let the loss flow out.<br />Thanks for sharing this dream and your reflection on it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-45027483116465546692009-06-30T10:34:11.964-04:002009-06-30T10:34:11.964-04:00What a beautiful post! I am so happy for you beca...What a beautiful post! I am so happy for you because I can feel just so much peace and conviction pouring from your words. I love nothing more than being forced to realize how much our babies change us every single day. They are serving you well, dear friend.Bluebirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05026618678540051581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-63172561549439087112009-06-29T23:39:52.254-04:002009-06-29T23:39:52.254-04:00like others you mentioned in your post, i am one w...like others you mentioned in your post, i am one whose beliefs are uncertain at best. but i believe what you wrote. i have never had that type of communication with my twins, but i have had at least one clear message--an indisputable one, even to a nonbeliever as i believe myself to be. hugs to you and all your babies, and thank you for the lovely post. it made me cry.Rebahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16739267142330427759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-72958374709980440992009-06-29T22:59:02.560-04:002009-06-29T22:59:02.560-04:00Oh, Michele. That's amazing. I yearn for somet...Oh, Michele. That's amazing. I yearn for something like that where I can see E and communicate with her. The closest I've gotten is a sort of daydream where she's with our sweet dog, H, who also died. <br /><br />You do sound so much more peaceful than you did a couple days ago. I am amazed by your ability to really 'let go and let God.' It is my favorite expression, yet I know I fail to truly live it. For me, it's as if I let go but only if things go the right way. Once they start going off course, I pick it back up again. You've truly reached a point where you're simply letting go. <br /><br />I can't wait to see the ring. :)<br /><br />Peace, my friend.Mommy (You can call me OM)https://www.blogger.com/profile/07330090628350118582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-18669187859372107772009-06-29T20:47:07.702-04:002009-06-29T20:47:07.702-04:00I am so glad that they communicated so clearly tha...I am so glad that they communicated so clearly that everything is going to be ok<br />and that really<br />everything is ok. I am so happy to hear of your peacefulness, and it must have been so magical to have them so close where you could feel them.<br /><br />I am sorry for your weekend scare, and don't ever hesitate to ask for reassurance from the doc folks, truly. You are allowed to. And in this day having a more peaceful heart?<br />I am so so happy for you.<br /><br />warmly,<br />KateKatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12533501052787233233noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-21941944527031868072009-06-29T19:18:04.122-04:002009-06-29T19:18:04.122-04:00I am so glad you've had this vision to give yo...I am so glad you've had this vision to give you peace. It is lovely how they are reaching out to you.Simbelmynehttp://intentional-stones.typepad.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-85685207167880327452009-06-29T14:45:03.487-04:002009-06-29T14:45:03.487-04:00Yes they were with you! May their joy and love env...Yes they were with you! May their joy and love envelop you and give you peace. It is soooo difficult to give up our sense of control but you are right- we have so little control. Put your feet up and enjoy every moment with Maya and Robert as your other children hold you and bless you with their love every day.Murielhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06234654910403882674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-77175918716150026312009-06-29T13:08:56.378-04:002009-06-29T13:08:56.378-04:00How beautiful!! I firmly believe that God answered...How beautiful!! I firmly believe that God answered our prayers for your peace in this way! My family and I have been praying alot for you guys.I'm also glad to hear that you are feeling better today.<br />May God continue to bless you and Peter with His peace and strength :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-1741032461231934232009-06-29T12:28:33.000-04:002009-06-29T12:28:33.000-04:00I understand. And I also believe with my whole hea...I understand. And I also believe with my whole heart, the same as you do.Mistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10497823064126116308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-56095828580732334032009-06-29T11:58:39.922-04:002009-06-29T11:58:39.922-04:00What a beautiful vision! I'm so glad that you...What a beautiful vision! I'm so glad that your babies were able to bring you such comfort.<br /><br />I know exactly what you are saying about not enjoying today becasue you are too worried about what tomorrow will bring. I'm trying so hard to overcome that. I told myself I wouldn't let it be that way this time. But there I am...<br /><br />More than anything I'm just really, really happy for you, Maya and Robert.Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05054869953538170225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-17333348133403408822009-06-29T11:51:06.871-04:002009-06-29T11:51:06.871-04:00After many years of trying to get pregant with my ...After many years of trying to get pregant with my youngest..a few days before my surgery to see if my tubes could be repaired.My hubby and I were at my MIL's grave.It was a beautiful sunny,warm,Easter day.As we placed tulips in her vase.We stood there for a moment and I said"well mom,do you think we will have good luck on thrus. with the surgery".With that her tulips all opened.My hubby looked at me in disbelieved.None of the other gravesites with had tulips also were opened.Well,my surgery was a sucess and as you know...Donnie was born at 38 weeks...Perfectly healthy.God shows us signs in many ways...I think God was trying to tell you something thru your babies.Keep the faith.Bobby & Maya will be fine:)Hugs,Michelemomto558noreply@blogger.com