tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post2945260072804934270..comments2023-10-26T04:01:17.116-04:00Comments on My Life After Loss: More Babies...Michelehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17681333723382119281noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-72895790812731535312010-08-10T02:46:31.667-04:002010-08-10T02:46:31.667-04:00I do not know what the Lord has in store, but I kn...I do not know what the Lord has in store, but I know He will bless your faithfulness to Him and the teachings of Holy Mother Church. I wish my husband was more interested in adoption. After losing our daughter (stillborn), and with two miscarriages prior to that, I wonder if I will will ever bear another child who will take their first breath. And now I am off to cry...Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08734385442507942513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-45456663834033021872010-08-05T20:10:03.413-04:002010-08-05T20:10:03.413-04:00Sending hugs your way. I too have had to come to t...Sending hugs your way. I too have had to come to terms w/ not being able to carry any more babies. It's really hit recently w/ CJ now out of diapers. For 6 years I've had one in diapers. Now we're really done w/ infants...unless we adopt but that's not where we are right now. My prayers for your peace. Love yaTerri Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02725449450869870709noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-69595995723703305662010-08-05T17:03:58.773-04:002010-08-05T17:03:58.773-04:00Michele, I will pray that you get the answers you ...Michele, I will pray that you get the answers you seek when the time is right. *hugs*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-66197906140967007432010-08-04T17:06:35.357-04:002010-08-04T17:06:35.357-04:00this touched me - we had a similar situation in ou...this touched me - we had a similar situation in our family.one-hit_wonderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02392238740961497297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-22422229113118898802010-08-04T16:19:37.212-04:002010-08-04T16:19:37.212-04:00we are in this boat right now .. granted Ive never...we are in this boat right now .. granted Ive never miscarried .. but with one 31 week stillbirth and living baby who stopped growing at 34 weeks and barely hung on till 38 weeks .... all because of my bicornuate uterus and the fact that their placentas failed due to IUGR .... hmm ... we want to have another but we are by no means RUSHING.<br />I am however, going OFF birth control at the end of this month. a)I dont like what its doing to my body and hormones b)I dont like the idea of preventing a pregnancy and c)we are ready for another baby when God is :) <br /><br />We have decided that if we are not pregnant by 2012, we will look into fostering or adopting .. which will be perfect timing cuz we will be back stateside.....Sara<0412https://www.blogger.com/profile/16829030349921737863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-62253764605152335632010-08-04T15:37:03.547-04:002010-08-04T15:37:03.547-04:00I'm sure you will find the right path for you ...I'm sure you will find the right path for you and your family. But it's hard getting there. (hugs)Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05054869953538170225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-88720342571722084762010-08-04T15:01:07.139-04:002010-08-04T15:01:07.139-04:00I know that it is never easy to give up on a dream...I know that it is never easy to give up on a dream. ((HUGS)) Your faith in God is the best plan.Debby@Just Breathehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11685398064340027809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-79637967056498314422010-08-04T11:07:14.872-04:002010-08-04T11:07:14.872-04:00i am going through some similar thoughts now as we...i am going through some similar thoughts now as well. it is hard b/c jeff and i are not on the same page really. in his heart he wants one more. i don't know what i want. i think i want one more, just later on. but i am not sure. this is really hard. email me if you need to talk to someone. xoRebahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16739267142330427759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-11204928889019146922010-08-04T10:47:22.408-04:002010-08-04T10:47:22.408-04:00Praying for wherever your heart leads you.Praying for wherever your heart leads you.trenniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208738689962789823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-54675812800264493602010-08-04T08:55:40.909-04:002010-08-04T08:55:40.909-04:00This one really touched me Michele. Baby G isn'...This one really touched me Michele. Baby G isn't here, yet (but all signs are pointing to he will be) and family is already asking for #2. Which is just so wrong, because a) they should be asking for #8 and b) how can knowingly intentionally go through this again and bring another child along for the ride? But, we have come to the same decision it sounds like you and Peter have reached, don't prevent and adopt when the time is right.<br /><br />{hugs}Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-65867656283843528692010-08-04T08:15:14.330-04:002010-08-04T08:15:14.330-04:00Our plans are similar, because my body, in its own...Our plans are similar, because my body, in its own way, makes things too risky for me and any other child we would have. Hopefully, this little one will make it to the end alive and healthy, and then I think any attempt to have another child will be permanently shelved. We think if we feel the hankering to parent another child, it will be through fostering.MrsSpockhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10792687516201324640noreply@blogger.com