tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post2110296017880393595..comments2023-10-26T04:01:17.116-04:00Comments on My Life After Loss: Is this living or simply life?Michelehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17681333723382119281noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-86622387129005048002009-01-08T00:54:00.000-05:002009-01-08T00:54:00.000-05:00Oh Michelle - you are doing it so very tough. Goin...Oh Michelle - you are doing it so very tough. Going back to work is very very hard. Getting out of bed is very very hard.It is very difficult to begin to try and find some meaning in life at this point when you feel so utterly broken. <BR/><BR/><BR/>We didn't clean the house for over 10 weeks and then we started paying a cleaner (which we still do). <BR/>Holding you in my thoughts and prayers<BR/><BR/>BarbBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11890663570732346315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-50366503109026029652009-01-07T09:47:00.000-05:002009-01-07T09:47:00.000-05:00Sweetie,I'm so sorry. I don't know exactly how you...Sweetie,<BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry. I don't know exactly how you feel, but I know the agony of having to pretend thing are alright and having to play along when you are in despair. Is there someone you can talk with, or something you can take to make it a little more bearable to get through the day. I have finally broken down and gotten something and it might help a little for you too. I'm sorry the way things have worked out. I am sending you love. When I was going through that post partum depression after Ruby people were presureing me to get back to my normal life and get on with things and all I wanted, needed was to jsut curl up and stay away from everyone. I don't know if that's the best choice, but it's what I needed and I think you should do what you need right now. If returning to work is too, much let it go.<BR/><BR/>Love you and will come see you soon.<BR/><BR/>sarahShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07447564243887187606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-54434004787608306042009-01-06T11:42:00.000-05:002009-01-06T11:42:00.000-05:00Michele,I feel your hurt, your pain, your longing....Michele,<BR/><BR/>I feel your hurt, your pain, your longing. No one should have to be forced to endure the magnitude of loss you have. It's unfair and awful and so distressing. All I can offer is I hope you are able to take the time you need to grieve. I think Peter is incredible to suggest you not go back to work if you just physically and emotionally can't. <BR/><BR/>If you are back at work, I hope you are hanging in there, one miserable day after another. I hope, in time, you can come to find the motivation to love your work again. And if that means growing another baby will offer you that hope and motivation, so be it. I know another pregnancy will never replace the pregnancies and babies you lost, but I also know subsequent pregnancies go a long way in restoring some semblance of hope and happiness to our lives again.<BR/><BR/>Thinking of you, M. Absolutely.c.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02933776400434137451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-88739480185748493692009-01-03T21:00:00.000-05:002009-01-03T21:00:00.000-05:00Michele,(((Hugs))) I can not even begin to think o...Michele,<BR/><BR/>(((Hugs))) I can not even begin to think of the pain and the hurt that you feel. I'm not sure of even the words to say but know that I'm praying for you and your husband's strength. I know you will never forget the pain or the memories, I just pray that God gives you the peace that surpasses all understanding as we have to continue on with our day to day living.A n Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16938107811730310326noreply@blogger.com