tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post7694589090560152440..comments2023-10-26T04:01:17.116-04:00Comments on My Life After Loss: The Breast IntentionsMichelehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17681333723382119281noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-46867564554474529332013-07-27T08:49:44.421-04:002013-07-27T08:49:44.421-04:00People do need to be more understanding; what work...People do need to be more understanding; what works for one family does not mean it works for all. I did not choose to breastfeed either of my children; I got more flack for not inducing lactation when we adopted Jess than I did for letting my milk dry up after giving birth to Jason. We circumcise. We need two incomes for our lifestyle which is not grand but does include things we feel are important that we would not be able to provide on one. I co-slept with one, not with the other. I don't believe in spanking or crying it out. If we could all practice more understanding and less judging, the mommy wars would have a chance of ending. The message on this link I found I loved - http://ctworkingmoms.com/end-the-mommy-wars-photo-special/Paulahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01239906850935331782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-32632194159961938792013-07-24T11:30:16.187-04:002013-07-24T11:30:16.187-04:00I had terrible time at the beginning with BF Marti...I had terrible time at the beginning with BF Martina. I never did it with Oliver so I didn't know, but it was sore, and bleeding. But it will get better. I can't say I enjoy it (3 month now) but it's ok and no longer a pain. I so remember those 10-20 second at the beginning of each feed....they would make me pee in my pants! But mostly I had this queasiness which has now also gone. You are doing great! Fran Franhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05717020378275616297noreply@blogger.com