tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post6736976933261321835..comments2023-10-26T04:01:17.116-04:00Comments on My Life After Loss: (5) 2Michelehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17681333723382119281noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-68933111984004845622012-11-04T10:16:52.063-05:002012-11-04T10:16:52.063-05:00Thank you, Ladies. Knowing that they are remember...Thank you, Ladies. Knowing that they are remembered does help the grief and pain. I know my dad meant nothing hurtful; I know that deep down. It still was a hurt, even though there are no hard feelings against him. <br /><br />And Queenie- a HUGE thank you for cheering all of us at MCM. Knowing that you were there, cheering, even though we never may have made eye contact or met physically, makes me smile even now. All the cheering helped every racer cross the finish line :)Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681333723382119281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-26483983061255522172012-11-04T01:50:59.826-05:002012-11-04T01:50:59.826-05:00It matters to me as well. THEY matter to me, as do...It matters to me as well. THEY matter to me, as do my own. Ameliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07115154893444857726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-7471810914379146212012-11-03T21:13:33.575-04:002012-11-03T21:13:33.575-04:00I'm so sorry. That sounds very painful. But ...I'm so sorry. That sounds very painful. But perhaps what you are perceiving as "forgetting" is more a function of how others are dealing. Perhaps your dad was really hurt by their deaths, and tries not to remember because it's too painful. Perhaps people don't mention them because they wish to spare you further pain, or they just don't know what to say (as I often say, we are not a society that really deals with death well). I know it's hard on you, but just because they are not mentioned does not mean they are forgotten. Indeed, I looked up your marathon chip time and tried to find you during the marathon because I really wanted to cheer on the brave woman who mothered all of those babies. Chin up. They are NOT forgotten.Queenie. . .https://www.blogger.com/profile/00666609807461763029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-57050485279086789172012-11-03T18:11:01.830-04:002012-11-03T18:11:01.830-04:00I promise you that every single time you pop into ...I promise you that every single time you pop into my mind immediately I am flooded with an image of you and then every single one of your children springs to mind, too. Often Nicholas and Sophia especially spring to mind because they share names with two of mine so I say their names often. They are not forgotten. *hugs*quadmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17254199098599230245noreply@blogger.com