tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post5754699537552466372..comments2023-10-26T04:01:17.116-04:00Comments on My Life After Loss: It's Still Hard...Michelehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17681333723382119281noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-59507174480810535452011-01-04T08:41:46.354-05:002011-01-04T08:41:46.354-05:00I am so very, very sorry, Michelle. You are a bea...I am so very, very sorry, Michelle. You are a beautiful, strong person, and an inspiration to so many.Mother Knows Best Reviewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07127811116486063201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-4793196194260899842011-01-03T14:32:10.430-05:002011-01-03T14:32:10.430-05:00The one thing I've learned through all of this...The one thing I've learned through all of this is that people, including family, are just plain insensitive and cruel. Those who should be loving and sensitive in tough times, often deliver the hardest and most painful blows. I think most of us would have continued with the Christmas holiday, and frankly they shouldn't judge unless they've walked a mile in your shoes.<br /><br />I love the story you posted at the end Michelle. God Bless!Joannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05823767091787001229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-58619724778537647352011-01-03T12:56:14.268-05:002011-01-03T12:56:14.268-05:00I am sorry that you had to go through this again, ...I am sorry that you had to go through this again, and that people cannot be sensitive to the fact that just because you have B & M that you wouldn't hurt for baby G either! The things people say are rediculous and only you and your husband can know where God wants your family to be! My husband and I have tried fertility and ended up successfully adopting 2 beautiful children...we had 4 miscarriages and are adopting again and the things people are even saying about 'stealing another mother's child for the third time' our out of this world! People do not think before they talk, and honestly some people are too selfish to step out of their own box....may God richly bless you in 2011 and your children (all of them) be remembered and loved all year through!AJHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14968469954352006212noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-84928351410201555032011-01-03T10:52:47.462-05:002011-01-03T10:52:47.462-05:00I just read your sad news and wanted to send you a...I just read your sad news and wanted to send you a big hug. I'm so sorry.cheryllookingforwardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04558612718225988674noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-4267286113818526622011-01-03T03:21:32.769-05:002011-01-03T03:21:32.769-05:00forget about those people who dont understand grie...forget about those people who dont understand grief .... even if they have experienced a loss, everyone experiences grief differently ... and for them to tell YOU how YOU should feel is NOT right! <br /><br />Like I said on FB, its gotta be nice knowing that you were pregnant ... but again; even with it coming and going so fast.. it is still a loss and you need to recognize your emotions the way that YOU need to. Not the way that is "normal' or "expected"....Sara<0412https://www.blogger.com/profile/16829030349921737863noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-81827205026546440912011-01-03T00:35:29.231-05:002011-01-03T00:35:29.231-05:00Peace be upon you, Michele. Every baby is indeed a...Peace be upon you, Michele. Every baby is indeed a blessing. I don't understand why Grace couldn't stay. Please take care of yourself - you have every right to feel the way you do. XXXone-hit_wonderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02392238740961497297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-50057229489491309972011-01-03T00:13:00.051-05:002011-01-03T00:13:00.051-05:00Oh Michele, I am just catching up and I am so, so ...Oh Michele, I am just catching up and I am so, so sorry. No matter how many losses we experience, each one is heartbreaking. All those hopes and dreams we build up in a short amount of time are ripped from us so quickly and it hurts. I am so sorry. Wishing you peace and comfort. xxTinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15149337445828424583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-56301841787847933472011-01-02T22:34:08.023-05:002011-01-02T22:34:08.023-05:00(((HUGS)))(((HUGS)))trenniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06208738689962789823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-70385858893659689962011-01-02T22:31:02.802-05:002011-01-02T22:31:02.802-05:00Why oh why do people have to chime in their cruel ...Why oh why do people have to chime in their cruel thoughts and opinions on a personal time of grief. Why do people judge your grief or what you choose to do with your body? Sigh. I'm sorry Michele for your loss- and I'm sorry that you cannot grieve in peace but with the eyes of those who do not fully understand judging how you grieve and why. *hugs*Aishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00756390674173743871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-40094183960252439102011-01-02T22:28:22.268-05:002011-01-02T22:28:22.268-05:00Grief doesn't own a clock. And it doesn't...Grief doesn't own a clock. And it doesn't decrease proportionately. It ebbs and flows, and smacks us, HARD, at times we both do aniticpate and at others when it wallops us in both its' surprise and its' strength. <br /><br />I'm sorry. There are no words that are ever adequate. So I don't try. Just to let you know that you are on my mind, and I am here for you. And I won't get tired of your grief. Ever.Ms. Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04734867984972785143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-31263941796080150742011-01-02T21:08:32.735-05:002011-01-02T21:08:32.735-05:00Michelle, I am coming out of lurkdom. I had my fir...Michelle, I am coming out of lurkdom. I had my first miscarriage when I was 9 weeks pregnant, the day before our daughter's third birthday party with a preschool class of kids scheduled to come. You can believe both my husband and I were grieving but with small children, life needs to go on and so do birthday parties. My thoughts, prayers and sympathy to both you and Peter. PatPatC.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00775478758315157747noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-52583025485220713142011-01-02T20:05:49.939-05:002011-01-02T20:05:49.939-05:00I am sorry that someone was so cruel and thoughtle...I am sorry that someone was so cruel and thoughtless at such a difficult time for your. If I had been in your position I would have continued with the Christmas Eve and Christmas celebrations. As you said you can't just take a break when you are a Mother and you want to make the holiday special for them. Maybe you should reevaluate your relationship with this person.Karen Melehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11089439344581751337noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-90496663734012743492011-01-02T19:25:01.248-05:002011-01-02T19:25:01.248-05:00I am sorry for the things people are saying. I al...I am sorry for the things people are saying. I also wish you were not going through this. <br /><br />I am praying for your family as you work through the grief. <br /><br />PezKristenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13714076999085050507noreply@blogger.com