tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post4094363293629423748..comments2023-10-26T04:01:17.116-04:00Comments on My Life After Loss: NICU Day 27Michelehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17681333723382119281noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-35539440300624039522009-10-10T22:45:30.181-04:002009-10-10T22:45:30.181-04:00Girl, I undersand all the stuff you were saying ab...Girl, I undersand all the stuff you were saying about people's comments. I lost my little boy 10 days after he was born at 36 weeks, due to an infection in my body. I know people mean well, but I don't look at his life as some sort of sacfrice for these twins of mine. He was his own life, with his own purpose. I, too, felt like I failed. Maybe your body did fail you, but the love you give these babies won't. I hope you can bring yourself out of this way of thinking in time -- guilt is the worse emotion to carry. Anyhow, your babies are beautiful and look so great!Melissanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-4954230094473185062009-10-08T15:29:28.567-04:002009-10-08T15:29:28.567-04:00Sorry about the shifts, that really isn't fair...Sorry about the shifts, that really isn't fair. You poor thing. ((HUGS)) You shouldn't have to cry when you leave. The only good thing is that before you know it they will be home with you all the time for you to comfort.Debby@Just Breathehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11685398064340027809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-78056311444675971792009-10-08T13:29:40.306-04:002009-10-08T13:29:40.306-04:00Sorry to hear about your bad nurse. I can only ima...Sorry to hear about your bad nurse. I can only imagine how you feel. Hopefully, it will be the last time it happens. I would say something to someone. It might make a difference in the future. On a happy note it sounds like the babies are doing well! That is always wonderful news! You are doing great Mama! Keep going strong! God will give you the strength. ((hugs))<br />DeneshiaWhere's my miracle?https://www.blogger.com/profile/17923952761462567439noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-25614532497330086372009-10-08T09:49:13.647-04:002009-10-08T09:49:13.647-04:00I'm hoping that the more people who hear you w...I'm hoping that the more people who hear you want the 12 hour nurse, the more likely you are they get them.Mother Knows Best Reviewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07127811116486063201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-90428497947608761832009-10-08T09:45:38.214-04:002009-10-08T09:45:38.214-04:00I'm so happy to hear how well the babies are d...I'm so happy to hear how well the babies are doing Michelle! I look forward to logging on each day and reading an update. I'm sorry that you have to deal with that situation with the Nurses, I hope it gets better for you.Justinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14155563108211166396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-39966511488337808492009-10-08T09:23:40.780-04:002009-10-08T09:23:40.780-04:00Michele, I've had to deal with frustrating sit...Michele, I've had to deal with frustrating situations like the 8 hour nursing situatino (though not that issue in particular) and I urge if you can to please talk to as high up as you can go abotu te 8hour shifts. If the nurses agree they should have 12 hour shift nurses then they should and if you bug the higher ups enough they will do it to keep you quiet. Ask the nurses advocating the 12 hour schedule who you should talk to. They might not litsent o you at first but if you bug them enough, 95% of the time they will!Katehttp://www.twoweekwaiting.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-75449855444977393272009-10-08T09:09:06.231-04:002009-10-08T09:09:06.231-04:00Aww Michele, I can imagine it must be hard to leav...Aww Michele, I can imagine it must be hard to leave them. *hugs*<br /><br />They are doing so well. They truely are a blesing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-80280962049030129492009-10-08T08:59:21.807-04:002009-10-08T08:59:21.807-04:00I'm glad you had such a good visit with the ba...I'm glad you had such a good visit with the babies. And I'm sorry about the nurse/shift problems. I hope going forwards they only give them 12-hour nurses!Heatherhttp://www.heathermohr.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-75536213720108417062009-10-08T08:33:19.155-04:002009-10-08T08:33:19.155-04:00Bobby and Maya sound like like such joyous little ...Bobby and Maya sound like like such joyous little babies. I love to hear you talk about them. Sorry about the nurse situation. I'm sorry you have to deal with that on top of everything else.Donnahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05054869953538170225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-73342089581651047612009-10-08T07:50:46.395-04:002009-10-08T07:50:46.395-04:00Aw Michele. It is so hard to leave the hospital. O...Aw Michele. It is so hard to leave the hospital. Once I could hear J crying as I walked in and I was just rushing with my hand wash and my expressed milk and everything. I just wanted to get to her so much.<br /><br />And I understand that feeling of having the little bit that you can do taken away. Oh my dear, hang on in there. I hope and pray it won't be long before they are home with you and Peter. xoCatherine Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01618295389400457254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1809677799536184324.post-22124248466246807722009-10-08T06:51:25.558-04:002009-10-08T06:51:25.558-04:00I so love hearing the stories and how the babies a...I so love hearing the stories and how the babies are getting bigger and brighter. What a blessing. Give em lots of lovin from down south. lol.Jennihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16499502329602777628noreply@blogger.com